Not So Perfect, Me……

I am not perfect but I make sure the house is always clean, his clothes are washed and perfectly ironed and his things are in place.

I am imperfect but I make sure his health is fine.

I am imperfect but I never let him count his weakness. He is perfect because I have always let him be the perfect one.

Yes… I am ‘an erratic wife’ of a picture-perfect husband…!!

My imperfection has another side as well which my husband overlooked. I keep surprising him with gifts, love, hugs, and kisses even when he escapes saying “Baby, I am not good at showing affection, I told you”.

Every day, I call him even though I have back to back crazy meetings, to make sure that he feels valued and our bond strengthens whereas he dodged saying that “Baby, I am not good in these sweet surprises, you please let me know what you want!”.

Extending my levels of imperfection, I must say, I make sure I manage the finance well so that none of us feel the burden.

When my perfect husband is busy in his office work I make sure I find some time out from my office and household work to find jobs for him as I want him to grow. I can easily do it for myself but I prefer his career over mine at this stage.

A gentle reminder to all the perfect husbands in the world:

It is important for you as a husband to understand that his words have tremendous power in his wife’s life. You need to adore her with words. She’s given her life to love and care for you, to partner with you and to create a family together.

If you are always finding fault in something she’s doing, always putting her down, you will reap awful problems in life.

Moreover, just as information, many women today are depressed and feel emotionally abused because their husbands do not Adore them with their words. One of the leading causes of emotional breakdowns among married women is the fact that women do not feel valued. One of the main reasons for that deficiency is because husbands are willfully or unwittingly withholding the words of approval which, women so desperately desire.

You are not perfect nor your wife is but you think you are perfect because your wife makes sure she covers your imperfections with her flaws. She helps you being the perfect one.

Your wife isn’t running for your money; she can even earn herself. All she is wants from you is your love, time and words of love.

Remember not to focus on her imperfections instead see the effort she continuously takes for you.

Do not remind her that she is imperfect instead tell her that you can find no one better than her. Some words can break heart even if said in jest.

If I also escape saying “sorry, I hate cooking I told you” “Sorry, it has been a week I didn’t do the Laundry and you should have reminded me” or “Sorry I was busy working, I couldn’t manage the finances etc.” He will not be able to deal with it.

I know my husband loves me and I cannot find a better husband but all I know is if I become perfect like him he might not love me the way he loves me now.

And in the End, The love you take is equal to the love you Make 🙂

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